Showing posts with label Tony Bramwell. Show all posts
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Tuesday, January 25, 2022

Some Famous Visitors of Kenwood

"We entertain very few. P.J. Proby was there one night and George Martin another. I think those are the only two we've specifically said 'Come to dinner' to, and made preparations. Normally I like people to drop 'round on the off chance. It cuts out all that formal entertaining business. We've just had Ivan and Jean down for a weekend - they're old friends from Liverpool, and Pete Shotton. The fellow who runs my supermarket came round on Saturday."
John, 1966

Obviously there were a number of guest far beyond from what I'll be writing about here. Family, friends, celebrities, hanger-ons, fans, they all went to Kenwood, usually for a meal, listening to music, watching TV, stuff you normally do when entertaining guests. 
Pete Shotton and Cynthia's mother were honorary live-ins. 
Other family visitors include John's sisters Julia and Jackie, his cousins Stanley, Leila, David and Michael, Aunt Mimi, Aunt Elizabeth, Aunt Harrie, Aunt Nanny, Cynthia's brothers Charles and Anthony, John's father Alfred (his girlfriend Pauline was another live in but she didn't last as long as Pete and Lil), long time friends like Ivan Vaughan and Phyllis Mackenzie, list goes on. Of course, Paul McCartney, Jane Asher, Ringo and Maureen Starr, George and Pattie Harrison, George and Judy Martin, Mal and Lil Evans, Neil Aspinall, Peter Brown, Tony Bramwell, Alistair Taylor, Derek and Joan Taylor, Terry Doran, and more from the Beatles circle were also frequent visitors.
I already wrote about Julia and Jackie, Aunt Mimi, and most recently Mike and Phyllis Nesmith visiting Kenwood in the past.

As for celebrities: Bob Dylan, P. J. Proby, Dudley Moore, Peter Cook, Alan Price, Victor Spinetti, Joan Baez, and more. 
I'm not going to go in chronological order but here are some interesting tidbits about some of Kenwood's visitors:
P. J. Proby in 1965 

To be honest with you, out of these celebrities, I know about P. J. Proby the very least, and after reading a bit about him while researching for this post, I'm rather glad I know next to nothing about this guy! Anyway, personal feelings aside, from 1964 until 1966, P. J. and John were buddies while Cynthia was... let's say I don't think P. J. was her favorite person but I don't think she disliked him either. P. J., John, and Cynthia socialized at each other's homes and coming home as the sun was coming up at dawn. 

"In spring of 1964, P.J. Proby, a Texan rocker from a wealthy oil and banking background, who looked and sounded like Elvis, was invited to appear on the first Beatles' TV show, Around the Beatles. Beyond his obvious talent, John was almost hypnotically fascinated by P.J.'s demonic, destructive nature. P.J. was like John's dark twin, a man who quickly found his way into the wilder circles and excesses of London society. He was a Jack Black man, lots of it, but John wasn't. To Cynthia's dismay, John started to hang out with the lean Texan who dressed like a cowboy during the day and in velvets, ruffled pirate shirts and buckled shoes by night......One evening they met up at the Ad Lib. P.J. just cruised through the booze, but John got hammered. P.J. roared with laughter when he told me the details of how the evening went from there, how Cynthia miserably trailed in their wake, begging John to take her home when they went on to a party in a basement apartment of a red brick Victorian mansion block in Bayswater, where I had mybedsit. Cyn was horrified when she realized that many couples- some of them titled- were into voyeuristic sex, while others were watching a blue movie. John was passed a massive reefer and took a deep, chest-convulsing drag. He passed it to Cynthia and she declined, so he took another drag. Poor John. Tough nut and Joe Cool felt waves of nausea sweeping over him and rushed to the bathroom,where he threw up into the large white bathtub."
Tony Bramwell

"I used to go over to his and Cynthia’s place every Saturday. I introduced him to bourbon. I went over there one day and, as I usually did, I started to pour the bourbon out at the coffee table and John said, 'Not for me.' And I said, 'None for you?' He said, 'No, I’m smoking the peace weed from now on.' And he pulled out this paper and it was very large and he rolls this joint and it wasn’t packed at all. It was all loose. He put it in his mouth and I knew when he lit it what was going to happen, but I kept my mouth shut. He lit the cigarette and it went Whoomph! Nearly burned his eyebrows off. So I said, 'John, I don’t even smoke cigarettes but let me show you how to pack those things. All my friends in California do this.' So I rolled him a joint. But that was the end of his and my boozing days. We drifted apart after that because he didn’t want to go out and raise hell anymore. He wanted to stay at home and get stoned all the time."
P. J. Proby, 2018

"I stayed very very close friends with John Lennon most of all. I’d go over to John’s house and Cynthia would cook me southern fried chicken and all kind of Texas food and everything. John and I would go up to his little room – Cynthia had given him one whole floor at the top of the house for himself and he had painted it all matte black and all matte red. That’s where he did his music and he had one room full of toy cars and a big racetrack and we would just race toy cars all day and play music."
P. J. Proby, 2012

"They were all very nice. Then one I got along with best was John. John was married to Cynthia and I was just going through a divorce, so we had something more in common. John and I were nearer each other's age. I was twenty-five and John was about twenty-four. I understood John's humor. The rest of 'em didn't have any humor, except for Ringo. He kind of sat in the background and didn't say very much. So John invited me out to his home. I'd go out there every weekend. I introduced him to Jack Daniels. So, I'd take about five fifths of Jack out there every weekend. Cynthia would make cornbread and corn on the cob and Southern food for me. Southern fried chicken. John and I just became very close. John and I would play pranks on people like Brian Jones of The Rolling Stones. We'd go over to Brian's house about three sheets in the wind and steal all of Brian's clothes and then go back to my place and wait for the phone to ring. Brian would call; 'Hey guys, please, please bring my clothes back. Your dirty laundry doesn't fit me anyway.' So, we'd just laugh and take all of his clothes back to him."
P. J. Proby

"We didn't really talk all that much. He had a house, this huge, huge mansion with hardly any furnishings in it. Cynthia had let him take the top floor in this three story mansion and that was his floor to do anything he wanted. So, he painted it mat black and mat red. In one huge, huge room he just laid down these tracks, almost like a train track, but it was for cars. He and I would sit up there for hours and hours and race these cars against each other. Then we'd go into a music room and sit down. He had every instrument in the world in there. We'd take turns playing different instruments. He really amazed me when I pulled out a steel guitar and he could play it. He could even play Country And Western on it."
P. J. Proby 

By 1966, the friendship petered out; P. J. moved on and, at this time of writing, is still alive.
Peter Cook and Dudley Moore

Peter Cook and Dudley Moore were a British comedy team, very much like Laurel & Hardy, Martin & Lewis, with comedy sketches and music on their television show, Not Only... But Also. John appeared on the show quite a few times between 1964 and 1966, becoming friends with both men. Peter Cook was married to Wendy since 1963 (until 1971) and they had two children. Wendy was very much like Cynthia, I think, as she was an art student. One time in January of 1965, John and Cynthia were invited to Peter and Wendy's home in London for dinner. Their driver, Les Anthony, got lost and had to call for directions (this was before GPS was invented).

"When John and Cynthia Lennon were coming to dinner I made a special expedition down to the French butcher in Soho in order to do filet de boeuf en croûte — fillet of beef smothered in pâté de foie gras with truffles and wrapped in a jacket of puff pastry. It is the kind of thing that needs a quick blast in the oven and not to sit around after that. The Lennons were invited for 8 PM. The other guests — including Dudley and and his wife Suzy Kendall — were all there on time. Eight-thirty came and went. I retrieved the filet from the oven. Nine PM and we got a phone call from Lennon’s Rolls-Royce. Their driver was lost. It was nearer 10 when they arrived. My special meal eventually appeared, looking rather forlorn, and judging by the expression on John’s face I might as well have opened a can of beans."
Wendy Cook, 2006

Sounds like Beef Wellington that Wendy made. It was also the first time John and Cynthia had garlic.

"John and I also spent many an enjoyable evening in the company of Peter Cook and his first wife dining superbly at their home in Hampstead with such dinner companions as Dudley Moore and that and that great wit Patrick Campbell. It was all very stimulating and exciting being able to converse and socialize with people who only a few short years before had been names in the newspapers and faces on a screen."
Cynthia, 1978 from her book A Twist of Lennon

In her second book, John, Cynthia wrote that Peter and Wendy invited them for lunch. Cynthia was impressed with the style of their home. John joined in on the jokes with Peter and Dudley; at one point, John nudged Cynthia under the table smiling at her - this was great! As they were leaving, John invited Dudley, Peter, and Wendy over to his house for a meal the following week. Cynthia was horrified! At the time, her cooking skills improved since becoming a wife but she felt she couldn't compete with the meal Wendy served. Cynthia was covered with cutlery, dinner table settings, and a wine cellar (despite not knowing what wine goes with what food). As the date got closer, Cynthia settled on prawn cocktails for appetizers, roast lamb as main course, and apple crumple pudding for dessert. At the last minute, Dudley had to cancel due to work; John promised to be home on time from the recording studio by 8 PM. A half hour before the arrival, Cynthia realized no flowers and stumbled in the garden while dark. She changed and was ready when The Cooks came on time, but not John. Cynthia served nuts and crisps (chips) in bowls to nibble on and drinks while waiting for John. Cynthia tried her best to keep the conversations going and Julian played cute while the food was disintegrating in the oven. If only Cynthia knew that Wendy experienced the same thing! John finally came late night, stoned to calm his nerves and lost track of time. John still had joints, Peter and Wendy accepted and when dinner was served they ate it with no problems despite overcooked. The dinner gathering was a success and they socialized often. 
Joan Baez and Bob Dylan

Bob Dylan and Joan Baez were also guests, usually 'I'm in town, can I come over?' type when in town, usually separately. After the Cooks dinner gathering, Cynthia got cookbooks and expanded her social skills and confidence, welcoming people into her home while John would rather not but went along with it. On May 26, 1966, Bob spent the night in Kenwood and the next day, May 27th, John and Bob rode around in a limo while being filmed for Bob's documentary, Eat the Document.
Cynthia and Phyllis Mackenzie in 1964

After John and Cynthia moved to Kenwood in 1964, John was away on tour and Cynthia found the house lonely. She invited Phyllis to visit for a few weeks.

"Down south there didn't seem to be the casual dropping in on friends that I'd known in the north. Visits, however friendly, were by appointment only. Even my old mates seemed to fall away as if they were embarrassed by the wealth and luxury. My best friend Phyl came to stay once but she didn't come back. She couldn't handle it. Besides, she was married now with her own life to lead and these days our paths lay in different directions."
Cynthia, 1994

Cynthia and Phyllis went shopping, did their hair, and talked. By this time A Hard Day's Night was released in cinemas; Phyllis hadn't seen it yet so Cynthia took her to see it. She missed her husband and it was a chance to see him and hear his voice on film. Apparently it was Phyllis' only visit, Cynthia made it sound Phyllis was intimidated by the wealth but I think it was really because Phyllis was having her own life with marriage and eventually a child. 

 

Saturday, August 14, 2021

Brian Epstein Memorial

Brian Epstein's last year of life hasn't been easy: his bread and butter (The Beatles) had quit touring and became a studio band, so his arrangements became less. His other acts (Billy J. Kramer and The Dakotas, Cilla Black, Gerry and the Pacemakers) have either moved on or didn't meet the success as The Beatles and hardly went anywhere else. His personal life was rather in shambles with his homosexuality and the sign of the times not mixing well, and the death of his father. There's been mixed accounts on whether or not Brian was suicidal. I do believe Brian had hit some bumps, and he was suffering from depression, usually signs of suicide.... I really honestly don't know as I never met him, but I don't think Brian was going to give up on life like that. There's a sense of optimism, Brian did plan to meet up with The Beatles to see the Maharishi, he had plans. It may have been a misuse of medication, took extra too many, and lost his life in consequences. Either way, he died. The Beatles lost their manager and became vulnerable for business vipers wanting to get in on their magic, like Allan Klein who managed to sway John, George, and Ringo while Paul opted his in-laws (which wasn't a good look with favoritism and biased I'm sure John, George, and Ringo felt if they had settled on Lee and John Eastman). Their Apple business was also a mess... I'm sure if Brian had lived, Apple would've been better in organization. The Beatles were heartbroken, they were in Wales with the Maharishi, who pretty much used this opportunity to exploit Brian's death and use himself as the one to take care of a vulnerable band while offering his comfort words and wisdom. They returned to London and visited Brian's mother, Queenie, at his home in Chapel Street on August 29th.

"Queenie was sitting in the drawing room and the Beatles came in and I think Cynthia went up and gave her a red rose."
Joanne Petersen, Brian's Personal Assistant





With chauffeur Les Anthony while attending Brian's Memorial

On the same day, earlier time, John and Cynthia attended the London Motor Show and bought a Iso Rivolta, later that evening they attended Brian's Memorial on October 17, 1967. Apparently, Yoko was after John to sponsor her art exhibitions, annoying John... So, to do some damage control, John took Cynthia out that day. I would say at this point in their marriage, it was a struggle. It was two lives living separately under the same roof. Yet neither were ready to throw in the towel. 

"Getting John to underwrite her show was a huge coup and there was no way on earth that Yoko was going to keep it to herself. Triumphantly, she instantly sent out a press release announcing that she and John were holding an art exhibition. The white catalogue stated, Half a Wind: by Yoko Ono and John Lennon. John was very annoyed. Had Robert Frasser not been in jail he would have said, 'I told you so.' All John could do to retaliate was to solicitiously escort Cynthia to Brian's memorial service on October 17 and then very quickly publicly hold her hand at the Earls' Court Motor Show a few days later."
Tony Bramwell
(a few days later? The Motor Show happened the same day at the memorial!) 


When Brian died on August 27, 1967, John and Cynthia clung together while grieving. Brian was everything for John and Cynthia: he was Best Man at their wedding - which Brian arranged! And Godfather of Julian. Brian loaned his apartment for them to begin their married life, and introduced the ways of high class society and fine dining. There was a funeral on August 29, 1967 in Liverpool, but The Beatles didn't attend as it was for family and limited friends only. The Memorial was arranged for everyone to attend to remember Brian: The Beatles with Cynthia, Maureen Starkey, and Pattie Boyd, including George's parents, Neil Aspinall, and Mal Evans, the members of The Fourmost, Gerry and Pauline Marsden, Billy J. Kramer, Cilla Black and her husband Bobby Willis. The memorial was held at New London Synagogue near Abbey Road Studios. It started at 6 PMand officiated by Rabbi Louis Jacobs. Paul McCartney accompanied with John and Cynthia (Jane Asher did not attend) but left with George and Pattie afterwards. 
I don't know if there was a gathering afterwards, but I am sure there was. 

Most chronological books have the memorial on the 17th and the motor show the same day as How I Won the War premiere on the 18th, the following day. However, based on the clothes both John and Cynthia were wearing that day at both the motor show and the memorial were the same. I can't really see them wearing the exact same clothes the very next day unless they spent the night out and never changed until the premiere? That's the only logical conclusion but I very highly doubt it. 

Sunday, July 18, 2021

Fantasy Island

July 22 - July 31, 1967
John and Cynthia sightseeing in Athens 

One day, John decided he wanted to buy an island for privacy. I'm not sure what brought the idea, but it was something that was on John's mind. I'm sure it started on drugs, and fans coming to his Weybridge home. But once he shared this idea to Cynthia, she was sold! 
The idea of paradise where Julian could run around, John and Cynthia could be alone, with no strangers coming to the door... it does sound fantastic! I also find the idea a lovely gesture of John wanting to be with Cynthia, alone and away from the craziness. Eventually, the idea of the Lennons having their private island extended to the other three: Paul, George, and Ringo. 

"Mind you, when it came to odd requests, John gave me the biggest shock. We were at Abbey Road after a recording session and John laid down his guitar, turned to me and said, 'Alistair, I want you to buy me an island.' I thought this was just another example of the customary Lennon banter and responded: 'Fine, John. What'll it be? The Isle of Wright? The Isle of Man? A Caribbean island?' He said, 'No, man. I'm absolutely serious. I need to have a place entirely of my own. I want an island with a fresh water supply and green grass'. And he handed me a piece of paper with an island, fresh water, and grass written on it. This was clearly a plan he had devoted several seconds to preparing. 'I want to build a house on it to get some peace and privacy. Somewhere Cyn and I can go to get away.  Oh, and it mustn't be more than two hours from London,' said John...My instant reaction was that this was yet another Lennon wind-up. The sequence of events was a little too coincidental so I rang Cynthia to see if this was an elaborate John joke. She swore John was not messing around this time. He really did want an island and she liked the sound of their own little Emerald Isle... The Beatles wanted to take a look for themselves and have a holiday into the bargain and I sprang into action to organise it. Alex (Madras) went off to Greece to prepare his father's house in Athens for us and to hire a large enough yacht to accommodate Paul and Jane, John, Cynthia and Julian, George and Pattie, Ringo and Maureen*, Big Mal Evans and his wife, Neil Aspinall, and me."
Alistair Taylor
*Maureen didn't go - she was heavily pregnant with Jason.

"The most magical moment came at dawn. As the sky turned pink and sunlight flooded in, Pink Floyd took to the stage, for the first time wearing velvet flares and tight satin shirts. John was so overwhelmed that in a stoned way he had a vision of his future idyllic life. He came over and said, 'I'm taking Cyn away. We're going to live in Paradise.' He was referring to the island he had bought by auction in remote Clew Bay the previous month, but hadn't yet seen.The next day, John, Dunbar, and Magic Alex flew to Dublin and got into a large black limousine that was waiting for them at the airport, and drove to the lonely West Coast. A local boatman took them from the mainland to John's island. He strode out a few hundred yards of damp heather and spiky sea grass he owned, before huddling out of the wind in the lee of a rock, to make a handful of nonsensical sketches of his future home, with an eye that saw only fantastic pyschedelic visions. He wanted a place where he, Cynthia and Julian would find themselves, be happy and where there would be no deeply intense woman like Yoko to possess his mind. A place from which he would emerge occasionally to make a record or attend other psychedelic happenings. It was a dream that the exposed outlook and the cold winds from the sea blew away. The three intrepid adventurers returned to the madness of London and the island went back to sleep."
Tony Bramwell 





John, Cynthia, Julian, Paul McCartney, Jane Asher, and Alistair Taylor departing London to Athens on July 22, 1967

I don't know the process of buying an Island but I can safely guess that it isn't cheap... but John, and The Beatles, could afford it. Plus, they would have to pay for other amenities, like buildings, renovations, furniture, and care for the island (lawn maintenance, electricity, fresh water supply, food). 
Well, anyway, John and Cynthia decided make a trip to check out potential spots with Paul, George, Ringo Jane, Pattie, and Julian. Plus, Alistair Taylor, Mal Evans, probably his wife Lil, Neil Aspinall, Paula Boyd, and Magic Alex Madras, who was from Greece. I can really picture Alex working his 'magic' on John here - convincing him that Greece is the way to go. I believe this was really the first time John and Julian had a vacation together, and going out of the country. I honestly can't think of any other time John and Julian traveled together beforehand. On July 22, 1967, they set off to Greece and stayed with Alex's family. The following day, the 23rd, there was a storm so their boat trip was delayed. Instead, they went sightseeing and participated in a traditional Greek folk dance in Araxos. They also enjoyed the beach, swimming in the sea. I don't know exactly where they were mainly based- probably Athens, where they were also spotted sightseeing. I bet Alex was their tour guide. They were supposed to see a play Agamemnon hosted by Oxford University Dramatic Society; except Alex alerted news media that The Beatles were in town... why would he do that? Alex should've known that The Beatles didn't want attention while in town. They weren't there to be famous. Sure enough, The Beatles were greeted by the press and weren't able to see the play. This should've been a red flag on trusting Alex. July 24th, the weather was still delaying the boat trip, so, sightseeing they go. The next day, their yacht arrived but the ride was planned to set sail on the 26th; Paul and George decided to stay at "home" while John and Ringo went out to check out musical instruments. I don't know what the others did. On the day of (the 26th), Ringo left before getting on the boat to be with his heavily pregnant wife Maureen with Neil Aspinall accompanying him.  







John, Cynthia, Julian, Pattie Boyd, George Harrison, Ringo Starr, Paul McCartney, Jane Asher, and their entourage party enjoying food and tradition Greek dance in Araxos on July 23, 1967

Now, I heard two different versions on how The Beatles got on a yacht to island-shop: 
1) they rented a boat
2) the boat belonged to Alex's family
What is definitely true is that the yacht was named MV Arvi. The boat had 24 berths and a crew of eight, including the captain, a chef and two stewards. On July 26th, everyone got on board and set sail. The island of interest was Agia Triada. During the boat ride, John, Paul, and George took acid (I don't know about Ringo, he could've and he also left early to go home to his very pregnant wife).

"We rented a boat and sailed it up and down the coast from Athens, looking at islands. Somebody had said we should invest some money, so we thought: ‘Well, let’s buy an island. We’ll just go there and drop out.’ It was a great trip. John and I were on acid all the time, sitting on the front of the ship playing ukuleles. Greece was on the left; a big island on the right. The sun was shining and we sang ‘Hare Krishna’ for hours and hours. Eventually we landed on a little beach with a village, but as soon as we stepped off the boat it started pouring with rain. There were storms and lightning, and the only building on the island was a little fisherman’s cottage – so we all piled in: ”Scuse us, squire. You don’t mind if we come and shelter in your cottage, do you?’ The island was covered in big pebbles, but Alex said, ‘It doesn’t matter. We’ll have the military come and lift them all off and carry them away.’ But we got back on the boat and sailed away, and never thought about the island again." 
George Harrison

"We went on the boat and sat around and took acid. It was good fun being with everyone, with nippier moments. For me the pace was a bit wearing. I probably could have done with some straight windows occasionally, I’d have enjoyed it a bit more. But nothing came of that, because we went out there and thought, We’ve done it now. That was it for a couple of weeks. Great, wasn’t it? Now we don’t need it. Having been out there, I don’t think we needed to go back. Probably the best way to not buy a Greek island is to go out there for a bit. It’s a good job we didn’t do it, because anyone who tried those ideas realised eventually there would always be arguments, there would always be who has to do the washing-up and whose turn it is to clean out the latrines. I don’t think any of us were thinking of that."
Paul McCartney

Paul and Julian in Araxos, Greece on July 23, 1967

Julian and Paul building sand castle while in Greece 

One thing really noticeable during the trip to Greece: Paul and Julian. With John standing there, watching his band mate, co-songwriter, and best friend Paul McCartney playing with his son. Paul played with Julian, always took the time to fool around, giggling, shrieking, swimming, running around, playing Cowboys & Indians, and building sand castles. John definitely took notice, he often did acknowledged the tight bond between 'Uncle' Paul and Julian. I think it's a mix of complimentary and jealousy from John. 

"Paul had a much more tender way with people, and therefore had a greater understanding of handling children. That's how his association with me was tightened. When I was a kid, Dad wasn't necessarily the playing-around type, whereas Paul was, so there was cowboys and Indians and all that kind of stuff."
Julian, 1998

“Paul was definitely the more gentle sort of playing cowboys and indians all the time while Dad was off doing something else. So, he tended to be around a bit more.”
Julian 

“We were once on a Greek island on holiday, and we were on a boat. It was George and Pattie, John and Cynthia, me and Jane Asher, I think. And Julian was along. I played with Julian most of the trip. We’d run around the deck playing cowboys and Indians— ‘bang, bang, you’re dead’, or whatever— and Julian loved it. And I remember John coming up to me… In fact, it was one of the most poignant moments of our relationship. He took me aside and said, ‘How do you do that?’ And I couldn’t tell him. You either know how to do that stuff or you don’t.”
Paul McCartney, 1995

“We’d gone on this Greek holiday once to buy an island and Julian and I spent a lot time playing around on the boat. I used to play cowboys and Indians with him, and he’d love it: a grown-up who would go, ‘Now you chase me, and I’ll chase you, but after you’ve caught me, not before, okay?’ And you were totally in this mad magic game. I remember John coming up to me once and he took me aside and said, ‘How do you do it?’ I said, ‘What do you mean?' He said, ‘With Julian. How do you play with kids like that?’ I remember feeling a wave of sorrow coming over me, like uhh, I’d love to be able to tell you. Then I tried to give like the potted version, you know, ‘Play, pretend you’re a kid. Play with him.’ But John never got it. Never got the hang of it. John was always a man.”
Paul McCartney, 1999

There's footage from The Beatles Anthology of Paul hanging out with Julian and Jane in the sea, Julian sliding on a railing of the yacht with Jane watching over him, and with John smiling at Julian having their own moment. 
I don't know the deep details of the trip for John and Cynthia. In my mind, John and Cynthia were working on their marriage despite the problems... for major example: John was taking acid during the vacation and island-shopping. That must have pissed off Cynthia. She must have dreaded the idea of an Island getaway and John taking acid, like she would never escape from. Other than that, I never heard of any bad tension between them. Cynthia didn't write about the Greece trip in her books or HELLO! magazine installments or spoke about it in interviews, that I'm aware of. 


 




John, Cynthia, Julian, Paul McCartney, Jane Asher, Paula Boyd, and Alex Madras arriving at Heathrow Airport from Athens on July 31, 1967

On July 29th, George, Pattie, and Mal Evans left as George and Pattie were due to travel to Los Angeles on August 1st. On July 31st, the remaining Beatles party departed from Athens to London. The idea of buying an island was pretty much forgotten. Although, I think the idea of having a commune stuck around as Cynthia (and maybe Maureen, Pattie, and Jane) saw Tittenhurst Park while commune house shopping. Unfortunately, as we now know, the commune living never happened. There is something weird that I recently noticed: John and Cynthia were both wearing the same clothes when they left London and when they left Athens. 

Sunday, March 14, 2021

Life Up on the Hill

Cynthia and her mother Lillian with an unindentifed gentleman checking out the grounds of Kenwood, Weybridge, in Surrey 1964

"One minute we were living in a bedsit, and the next thing we had the mansion in Weybridge and a chauffeur."
Cynthia, 1999

"In two years I went from a bedsit in Liverpool to a mansion in Surrey with gardeners and chauffeurs and a housekeeping allowance of £50 a week. It was enough to blow anybody's mind."
Cynthia, 2000

This particular blog entry will be a long read. So much stuff had happened in the short four years the Lennon family living there. I already posted about household help and there will be a pet/animal entry at some point in the future as well as the general relationship between John and Cynthia. Also, there is a great blog about Kenwood with amazing details on history and additional information. It hasn't been updated much recently but no matter - what you want or need to know is provided.
Let's start from the beginning: During the first half of 1964 (January-June), John and Cynthia were unhappy with the London apartment they were living. Sure, it was in a nice part of London, probably well adjacent to everything you need to go to, except the cons were outweighing the pros. The 6 flight of stairs with no elevator, fans constant beseige their front entry door, no privacy. It was a nightmare. 

"We have a flat but you should see the outside of the house. It's scrawled on by people with messages that can't be removed. They're engraved, I know, you expect people to find out where you are living, but it's A strange thing to want to do, unless they are really young kids. It's rather hard."
Cynthia, 1964

When John returned home from The Beatles tour in New Zealand and Australia, it was time to move. Cynthia and her mother already started house hunting, going by the advice of John's accountants to look into Weybridge, Surrey. I don't know how many houses Cynthia looked at. Anyway, when John came home, I think Cynthia took John to check out the top choices: they settled on Kenwood.

Question: Out of all the places in England you could have chosen, why did you pick Weybridge? (press conference)
"Because it was the nearest at the time when I suddenly decided I'm gonna have a house for me and me wife. Somebody said, 'There's one up there,' and I said, 'Right, I'm having it.' That's all there is to it." John

"The house stood on a hill at the end of a long, wooded drive. It was huge - a mansion really, in Tudor style, surrounded by acres of mature gardens. Rhododendrons bloomed along the path, daisies speckled the grass, about 140 steps led up to the back door, and inside the sun poured through big mullioned windows. John and I grinned at each other. We couldn't quite believe that we might really buy this place. Until now we'd only ever lived in our family semis or rented flats. We'd never even had our own garden before. But the accountants were telling us we could afford it and it was a bargain at £19,000 - cheap because it needed renovation. 'Do you like it, Cyn?' John asked as we wandered through the empty rooms. Happily I sank onto a window seat and rubbed dust off the lattice pane. Through the diamond glass I could see a stone terrace baking in the sun. 'I love it,' I said. And that was it. Suddenly we'd bought our first house. The Beatles were now so successful it was obvious that we all needed to be based in the South, within easy reach of the studios and record offices of the capital. But our first attempt at a London home hadn't worked out."
Cynthia, 1994

"As it happened, at this point George had built a house in Esher, Surrey. It was a lovely leafy, peaceful area. 'Why don't you look for something round here?' George suggested. And that's how we came to be looking round the run-down property in St George's Hill, Weybridge, that bright afternoon. We both fell in love with the place and there was no need to carry on looking. This was definitely where we wanted to live.Another one of my cartoons of our life together.  It was a great relief when we could finally stop pretending that we weren't married. In fact the condition of the house wasn't that bad. You could have moved in straightaway but everyone was saying, 'Oh, my God, you've got to do this and you'll have to change that.' Until in the end we installed ourselves in the little staff quarters at the top of the house while the builders took over the rest for the following 12 months. The next thing we knew, an interior designer was coming along with swatches and colour schemes and we were having to make decisions about the whole house in one go. I was confused. Why is this happening, I wondered suddenly. I'm an artist, John's an artist, we can create our own colour schemes and choosing furniture's no problem if you've got the money. But the whole thing had spiralled out of control. We were both very young and ignorant and we thought this was the way it's done."
Cynthia, 1994 

Julian enjoying the sunshine at his new home, Kenwood, in 1964.

On July 15, 1964, John bought his first ever house for £20,000. Kenwood was designed in 1912 by Henry Colt and built the following year by Love & Sons. By the time John bought it, the house was already over 50 years old and needed repairs. John hired Ken Partridge to decorate his home after being impressed by the work he did for Brian Epstein, and spend £40,000 on renovations (cost more than the house!). John, Cynthia, and Julian already moved in while work was being done; the family lived in the servant quarters in the attic for several months. After John and Cynthia were able to be in their bedroom, the servant rooms were renovated in a few rooms for music studio, art studio, and an extra bedroom. Ken went overboard with his designs. I don't think he conferred with John and Cynthia on how they wanted it to their tastes - he was on his own. John was busy with his work while Cynthia watched in silence and bewildered. Whenever Cynthia would pass by, it seemed that the construction workers were enjoying yet another tea break. Almost a year later, the work was finally finished. John, Cynthia, and Julian got to sleep in their bedrooms.

Question: John, tell me if you've yet moved into your home in Surrey. (press conference, 1964)
"No, I haven't had time. The place is empty, you know. There's no furniture... needs decorating, and walls knocking down and things. It's nowhere near ready. I'll be in next year, probably. Well, I hope before. It depends, but that's the longest it'll take to fix it up." John
Question: And John, they said that you had moved to Emperor's Gate. Are you moving out of there and into the Surrey home, is that it?
"I've moved from Emperor's Gate, but not into the house, you see." John

"John and Cynthia's new house was in a state of being done up. In fact the work had hardly been started when we arrived. There was no kitchen downstairs, just a gaping hole where it was planned to be. There were no electric gates either, no swimming pool, nor landscape gardens. But John was enormously proud of it, telling us all about the plans and showing off the elegant oak staircase, the large reception rooms and his den, which was red and lined with books. In the absence of a functioning kitchen downstairs, the food we ate was cooked in the housekeepers flat at the top of the house. John insisted that we sat down as a family to eat, in the oak-panelled dining room downstairs, around a mahogany table under a chandelier. We sometimes ate roast dinners, but most of the time we had  very simple food, like our favorite egg and chips, with two year old Julian perched in his high chair beside us. 
John and Cyn slept in a huge bedroom with an ensuite bathroom. We couldn't get over the sunken bath, we'd never seen anything like it."
Julia Baird, 2007 

"It was especially bad on tour when they had to lock themselves into their rooms as hordes of fans stormed the hotel outside. Finally John decided it would be safer for Cynthia and Julian to live outside London, in a remote part of the affluent suburbs, away from the constant hysteria. 'Kenwood', a mock-Tudor mansion, was their first big house. Bought in July 1964, it was on the exclusive St. George's Hill Estate in Weybridge, in the Surrey stockbroker belt. When they began to get the house straighter, John arranged for Jacqui and me to go down for a few days. We loved the idea of being with John again at long last. It was an added bonus when he sent us air tickets: we'd never been on a plane before. The main hall was dominated by an elegant oak staircase and opening off it were the reception rooms, all beautifully furnished. John's den off the sitting room was entirely decorated in red and lined with books. John was an avid reader, a habit encouraged in his childhood by Mimi, and Cynthia said he often sat in there for hours with his nose in a book. One important room was missing: Cynthia's ultra modern dream kitchen. Somehow the builders hadn't got around to it yet. A dug up floor on the other side of a great hole in the wall was the only indication of where it was to be one day. In the meantime, meals had to be cooked upstairs in the flat where the housekeeper and her husband, the chauffeur, lived and brought downstairs to the dining room. John and Cynthia's room was one of the six bedrooms upstairs. It was carpeted in white and had an ensuite bathroom with a sunken bath. We had never seen such luxury. ...That short holiday with John at Kenwood meant a lot of Jacqui and me. It was great being a family together again. Fantastic though the house was, we'd have just been happy if it had been the gardener's cottage. The important thing was  being with John. We had a family life at Harrie's of course. But it wasn't the same as having our own proper family, like John, with us. It was almost as if Mummy might come waltzing in through Cynthia's kitchen hole in the wall with a trayful of scones straight from the oven, humming a nonsense tune. On the sitting room floor were some bulging canvas sacks which really intrigued us. Cynthia explained that they contained John's fan mail and invited us to have a look. We spent several hours totally absorbed reading through some of the thousands of letters. They were a fascinating insight into how passionately the fans felt about the Beatles. Nearly all of them were from girls."
Julia Baird, 1985 

"At long last the alterations were finished and we were able to move downstairs into our grand house but I'm sorry to say that while half of it worked, the rest we hated. Ultra-modern furnishings and colours jarred as far as we were concerned with the old-fashioned style of the building, and the sitting room was particularly unwelcoming. There was an amazingly uncomfortable Italian-style leather suite with metal bars. Two lamps were set just so, there was a glass table in the middle and two more tables arranged at careful distances. It was probably the height of good taste but to us it looked sterile and impersonal. More like a hotel lounge than a family home. The kitchen was now the most enormous I'd even seen; split level with everything chosen for me right down to the pots and pans, and everywhere with this stark, masculine colour scheme, with deep shades in plain designs. It was smart but it felt as if the house belonged to someone else. Over the years, at enormous cost, we gradually changed the house to our own style. I bought lots of flowery sheets and towels and lampshades and pillows to try and introduce a more feminine element and John decided he wanted black carpet in the sitting room and comfortable seats. Eventually we chose two semi-circular settees in pale, silvery grey with lime green covers and two easy chairs also in lime green. It sounds yucky but in fact it looked lovely and it was so nice to sink down onto something soft and comfortable."
Cynthia, 1994 

As Cynthia mentioned, she and John were both artists. They swapped furniture, repainted the walls (John painted the art room), and making the house into their own. The house originally had 22 rooms and after the renovation it was 17 rooms with 6 bathrooms. Kenwood contained 3 floors, a garage, and, later with John as an owner, a pool.

"Then John decided that we had to have a swimming pool. On our steeply sloping site the construction was difficult and the builders were back for another six months but, eventually, there it was. Sadly, John was hardly ever home to swim in it."
Cynthia, 1994 

John originally wanted the floor of the pool to be a mirror but settled on a psychedelic eye on the side. 
John and Julian at the pool with the psychedelic eye, June of 1967
Photographed by Leslie Bryce 

1. John and Cynthia's bedroom (with two dressing rooms, a bathroom with a Jacuzzi)
2. Julian's bedroom (designed in red)
3. guest room (designed in blue, reserved for an additional member of the family in case John and Cynthia had another child; the bedroom was frequently used by Pete Shotton.)
4. music room (attic)
5. art room (attic)
6. game room (attic; contained a race car track)
7. sun lounge 
8. library
9. dining room (designed in purple)
10. kitchen with state of the art appliances that Cynthia was scared to use and need tutorial.
11. entry hall where Sidney the knight armour suit and a gorilla suit occupied as well as the wall drawn by John. Also, a pair of crutches- a gift from George Harrison. There was also a reception hall adjoining.
12. living room with the green sofas and black carpet
13. another lounge/living room for entertaining
14. guest bedroom, probably mostly used by Cynthia's mother
15. study/office
16. another bedroom
17. wine cellar in basement

How I do?
A sauna and an indoor swimming pool were added later with different owners.
John's favorite room was the sun lounge room overlooking the pool outside. Cynthia's favorite room was the library. John hated seeing empty shelves and would often send Lillian out to get knick knacks- mainly for 2 reasons: (1) to get her out of his house, and (2) she loved to shop and would gladly obliged. To entertain, the main reception and dining room were used but were mainly unused. They mostly used the sun room to be in, watching television and relaxing. 

"John did a lot of surprising things around the house. He had an old French suit of armor and it stood on the stairs. He used to fool around and do things like putting a gorilla’s mask on it. He also had all these Russian revolution posters on the walls that you could see as you went up the stairs."
Dorothy Jarlett 

"The first time I met John was after his return from America. I was told that he didn’t like people hanging around, and I would have to cope with him, but I found no problem with him being around the house. When I got to work at Kenwood, he was on the settee, looking very tired. He introduced himself to me, and I found him very nice. I always got along very well with John. He liked me looking after Julian, and I used to take his son down to my house to play with my daughter Anne and sometimes little Julian would spend the night with our family. John also visited our home and was always very considerate to me and my family. As the days went on, I found I was having other things to do besides looking after Julian, but he was almost always with me. I got to taking him out in my car for shopping, and took him home to my house to visit with my family. I had a folding pram which I took around with me and everything seemed to work out very nicely, but it seemed at times to be a very long day. I was left to cope with just about everything at Kenwood. After the renovations and changes, the family moved out of the upstairs flat and occupied the rest of the house."
Dorothy Jarlett 

"I'm not forgetful around the house. I can remember things I am interested in very clearly but other things are jumble in my mind. For instance, Cyn and I moved into this new house in Surrey. Well, the other night, the chauffeur was taking me home and he said, 'Where to?' and do you know, I hadn't a clue! Even though we have been living there a month. I couldn't remember where I lived! We drove around for 3 hours before we got from London to my home."
John, 1964

"At Kenwood, Cyn kept herself busy looking after the cooking and the baby, and gave the Lennon household a sensibly, orderly, and almost bourgeois character that John, the non-comformist, the rebel, secretly found comforting. She seemed content to occupy her spare time with reading, needlepoint, and the company of the other Beatles' wives. Most of these activities took place at the other end of the house,in the spacious library that was Cyn's equivalent to John's beloved morning room.
Pete Shotton, 1983

Cynthia, Julian, John, George, and Pattie in Kenwood, Spring of 1965
Photographed by Henry Grossman 

There was also a fruit machine that Cynthia was fond of.

"Cyn won't let me get rid of that."
John, 1966 

"Later on, John asked my husband to paint the upstairs flat and that became his music room and studio. He wanted it painted all in red, even the toilet seat. John bought a Scalectrix racing car set that he got from a man in Weybridge and he had it up in the top flat. He had problems getting it all sorted out so he called for my husband Bernard to help him set it up with the racing tracks. They used to go up there and race the cars. John was a lot of fun, you know?"
Dorothy Jarlett 

"Then there's the funny room upstairs. I painted that pink and green, changing from one can to another as I emptied each can of paint."
John, 1965 

"During 1964 and 1965, as the months of our new life 'down south' progressed, John and Cynthia grew more reclusive. Cynthia's mother came down from Liverpool and attempted to live with them, but John thwarted that by buying her a bungalow down the road. She still spent every day at their home, and John was forced to give her huge sums so she would go away and shop for antiques. 'It gets her out of me hair, Tone,' he'd say. 'Hey up! It's money well spent. I can't stand her.' But he came to hate the huge house, which was decorated in a stark modern style-at odds with its fake-Tudor exterior- by the same trendy interior decorator Brian had used for his apartment. The man charged a king's ransom to make it look chilly and cold. Cynthia was frankly threatened by its haughty glamour and craved John to herself in a cozy domestic environment. Mostly, he spent his time in the attic, in music rooms painted entirely in black or red, where he had a vast array of musical instruments, jukeboxes and pinball machines. He also had a train set that ran from room to room. When he came down from his dark eyrie like a bat blinded by the light, he and Cynthia ignored the rest of the palatial, echoing rooms and holed up in a cramped sun lounge off the kitchen. The kitchen was filled with so many gadgets that Cynthia was in terror of them. She didn't know how any of them worked and treated them as if they were bad genies hiding behind doors ready to jump out and attack her.   Kenwood became a prison. John was bored and lonely, rarely speaking a word to Cynthia, sneering at her mother and looking for ways to escape. I was a regular choice of playmate and co-conspirator...If it was still early, we'd go to our regular pubs, or we'd go to the movies in Leicester Square until midnight. 'C'mon, let's go to a club, Tone,' John would say at this point. That would be when my heart sank into my suede chukka boots because John was a notoriously lousy drinker. Two of anything was his limit, but he always demanded large Scotches and Coke. When the first drink hit the back of his throat and his eyes rolled back in his head, I knew we were in for a great deal of silliness. If I was lucky, John might fall asleep in the back of a car,either to sleep it off in the yard behind or to be quickly driven back to Weybridge, hauled out and handed over to Cynthia to be put to bed."
Tony Bramwell 

"I think Cynthia enjoyed our company. She often spent long weeks of her own when John was away touring or spending endless hours recording at the EMI Studios. It must have been lonely for her in that house, surrounded by all the luxury and having no one to share it with."
Julia Baird, 1985 

Question: "Is the house at Weybridge a permanent home?" (Interview, 1966)
"No, it's not. I'm dying to move into town but I'm waiting to see how Paul gets on when he goes into his town house. If he gets by alright then I'll sell the place at Weybridge. Probably to some American who'll pay a fortune for it! I was thinking the other night though that it might not be easy to find a buyer. How do you sell somebody a pink, green and purple house? We've had purple velvet put up on the dining room walls. It sets off the old scrubbed table we eat on. Then there's the 'funny' room upstairs. I painted that all colors changing from one to another as I emptied each can of paint. How do you show somebody that when they come to look the place over? And there's the plants in the bath. I suppose I could have a flat in town but I don't want to spend another £20,000 just to have somewhere to stay overnight when I've had too much bevy to drive home." John 

"Weybridge won't do at all. I'm just stopping at it, like a bus stop. Bankers and stockbrokers live there; they can add figures and Weybridge is what they live in and they think it's the end, they really do. I think of it every day -- me in my Hansel and Gretel house. I'll take my time; I'll get my real house when I know what I want. You see, there's something else I'm going to do, something I must do -- only I don't know what it is. That's why I go round painting and taping and drawing and writing and that, because it may be one of them. All I know is, this isn't it for me."
John, 1966 

I think John was more into apartment living; both Kenwood and Tittenhurst Park mansions did not work for John, both lasted less than 5 years of occupancy. For the last 7 or so years of John's life, he settled in The Dakota apartments that was very spacious. He certainly liked big rooms with space but I guess he saved money from garden upkeep, and whatnot. Meanwhile Julian enjoyed living there: he had a huge yard to run around in, A pool, a 300 feet slide, a giant Beatle boot (a prop from Help! movie) to climb on... paradise for a young child! I think Cynthia also enjoyed living there but not as much as Julian. I think she would have much preferred to be in a bedsit in Liverpool. That being said, I do believe Cynthia can manage to make a home from a mansion to a box under the freeway while making the best out of it. 

"I wasn’t very involved with the occasional parties at Kenwood because I didn’t wait on them like that, and they would do their thing. We had a little bed at my home so that Julian could stay there during the parties."
Dorothy Jarlett 

Cynthia, Julian, and John at home in Kenwood, Spring of 1965
Photographed by Robert Whitaker

"I think the earliest was actually when I was about 3 and 5, I guess, when we used to live in Surrey. He used to take me for bike rides, sitting in front of him down to see Ringo. That I vaguely remember. Many other times with fans around. There was a time when I remember standing on the roof of the house with him, with those little rubber bands, play into it, just sending them off into the sunset - that is a memory that still pretty clear. I remember being locked in the attic for quite a number of hours because I wouldn't stop widging about something. And I just remember being locked in for hours on end. Well,it was a party that Dad was throwing and I was sort of causing trouble,I guess, bit I just remember being stuck up there and I think Neil Aspinall from Apple was around and he had to let me out or turn the key on me, one or the other. Quite a few [hours]. There were times I remember swimming with him, and walking around the fields, the land around the house. He bought me a Mickey Mouse tricycle, which I.remember clearly. "
Julian

Ah yes, the fans at the gate. It is no surprise that the fans would find them. One time, right after they moved in and construction work was being done, late one night Cynthia heard a suspicious noise and went to check. She found some fans making their way in the house! The fans freaked out and Cynthia sent them on their way. John installed a gate to keep them out. Of course, it didn't always worked. There were times the gate would be left open... or fans would be quick enough to pass through as it's closing. I'm sure John and Cynthia realized that they would have to live with it. Despite that problem, there were many times Cynthia herself felt trapped in Kenwood as John did... it wasn't the fans. It was isolation, feeling alone, and her neighbors lived far enough that you couldn't see another house thanks to the acres of land. Cynthia sought company with her mother, Maureen, Pattie, housekeeper Dot, among others. She also went up to Liverpool as often as she could just to taste old life again. 

"I spent many hours at Kenwood at night with Julian. Often Cynthia would be out and John was in London recording, and my husband, Bernard would come to the house and stay with me."
Dorothy Jarlett 

"Cynthia was also out a good deal, especially in the evenings, and I soon noticed with surprise how very little time she and John spent in each other's company. In fact such was the irregularity of their respective comings and goings that they had agreed that whoever came home last would sleep in the guest room so as not to disturb the other. The master bedroom, which they normally shared, was actually a vast room on the first floor housing a massive eight-foot double bed and a sunken bath at the far end, and it was here that John loved to lie in till late in the morning."
Pauline Lennon Stone 

Cynthia and John in the garden of their home Kenwood in Spring of 1965
Photographed by Robert Whitaker

We (well, I) will get into more of John and Cynthia's relationship another day. For now, let's stick to living in Kenwood. Cynthia wrote in great detail in her second book John about life in Kenwood; I'm not going to copy word for word (a thing called plagiarism) but all in all, it sounded almost a typical family atmosphere from two Northern Englanders. Almost. John was away a lot being a Beatle, after all. 

"John was very friendly with me and he used to ring me up from the office and I would make arrangements for his day. Cynthia and her mother used to go away for shopping trips and she told me that John would pay me while they were away. When they went out I had to wait until they got home. John asked me one afternoon, 'How much do you get?' I said, 'Ten pounds.' He said, 'Ten pounds? That’s not enough. You’ll get 15 pounds and petrol money.' He made arrangements for me to be paid by the Beatles' company. John was a generous man and he wasn’t a snob."
Dorothy Jarlett 

"I was with the Lennons for about four years and experienced a lot of happenings, which included my family, and John looked on us for a lot of help at times. But he was often in London with the other Beatles. I used to have a lot of dealings with Peter Brown, their manager, and others in the London offices."
Dorothy Jarlett

Weybridge had plenty of well known and well to do neighbors. There was a golf club that John irritated by driving his golf cart wrecklessly on their green. Next door was Eric Sykes, a comedian who would shoot at intruders. Ringo Starr and George Harrison were also neighbors; Ringo's home was a 10 minute drive. He used to walk home from being at John's house and John would take Julian on his motorbike to Ringo's. George was also a daily visitor. We'll get more into visitors another day as I have so much ground to cover. 
In May of 1968, John and Cynthia were officially over. John took in a new girlfriend, Yoko Ono, who made herself at home and got pregnant in the process. At some point, John and Cynthia switched homes (Cynthia was staying with her mother in Ringo's London apartment) and it was agreed that Kenwood will have to be sold. Cynthia wouldn't be able to financially upkeep it and John did not want to live there anymore. Cynthia was able to take whatever she wanted before moving out for good around the time the divorce became final in November of 1968. John and Yoko returned to Kenwood until it was officially sold and they promptly moved out. 
As of this time of writing in 2021, Kenwood still stands despite being renovated with extra amenities (John's pool was destroyed and moved to a different area of the house), and it's having trouble finding a forever owner. I wish I can make a go for it but my bank account will laugh at me along with a no.