Walking Stick

 

Suitcases

 

Sail Away

 

Watchful Uncle

 

The Calm Before the Storm

Donovan, Jenny, Cynthia, Gypsy Dave, and Magic Alex in Greece, May of 1968. Little did Cynthia knew what was going on at home...

Fantasy Island

July 22 - July 31, 1967

John and Cynthia sightseeing in Athens 

One day, John decided he wanted to buy an island for privacy. I'm not sure what brought the idea, but it was something that was on John's mind. I'm sure it started on drugs, and fans coming to his Weybridge home. But once he shared this idea to Cynthia, she was sold! 

The idea of paradise where Julian could run around, John and Cynthia could be alone, with no strangers coming to the door... it does sound fantastic! I also find the idea a lovely gesture of John wanting to be with Cynthia, alone and away from the craziness. Eventually, the idea of the Lennons having their private island extended to the other three: Paul, George, and Ringo. 

"Mind you, when it came to odd requests, John gave me the biggest shock. We were at Abbey Road after a recording session and John laid down his guitar, turned to me and said, 'Alistair, I want you to buy me an island.' I thought this was just another example of the customary Lennon banter and responded: 'Fine, John. What'll it be? The Isle of Wright? The Isle of Man? A Caribbean island?' He said, 'No, man. I'm absolutely serious. I need to have a place entirely of my own. I want an island with a fresh water supply and green grass'. And he handed me a piece of paper with an island, fresh water, and grass written on it. This was clearly a plan he had devoted several seconds to preparing. 'I want to build a house on it to get some peace and privacy. Somewhere Cyn and I can go to get away.  Oh, and it mustn't be more than two hours from London,' said John...My instant reaction was that this was yet another Lennon wind-up. The sequence of events was a little too coincidental so I rang Cynthia to see if this was an elaborate John joke. She swore John was not messing around this time. He really did want an island and she liked the sound of their own little Emerald Isle... The Beatles wanted to take a look for themselves and have a holiday into the bargain and I sprang into action to organise it. Alex (Madras) went off to Greece to prepare his father's house in Athens for us and to hire a large enough yacht to accommodate Paul and Jane, John, Cynthia and Julian, George and Pattie, Ringo and Maureen*, Big Mal Evans and his wife, Neil Aspinall, and me."

Alistair Taylor

*Maureen didn't go - she was heavily pregnant with Jason.

"The most magical moment came at dawn. As the sky turned pink and sunlight flooded in, Pink Floyd took to the stage, for the first time wearing velvet flares and tight satin shirts. John was so overwhelmed that in a stoned way he had a vision of his future idyllic life. He came over and said, 'I'm taking Cyn away. We're going to live in Paradise.' He was referring to the island he had bought by auction in remote Clew Bay the previous month, but hadn't yet seen.The next day, John, Dunbar, and Magic Alex flew to Dublin and got into a large black limousine that was waiting for them at the airport, and drove to the lonely West Coast. A local boatman took them from the mainland to John's island. He strode out a few hundred yards of damp heather and spiky sea grass he owned, before huddling out of the wind in the lee of a rock, to make a handful of nonsensical sketches of his future home, with an eye that saw only fantastic pyschedelic visions. He wanted a place where he, Cynthia and Julian would find themselves, be happy and where there would be no deeply intense woman like Yoko to possess his mind. A place from which he would emerge occasionally to make a record or attend other psychedelic happenings. It was a dream that the exposed outlook and the cold winds from the sea blew away. The three intrepid adventurers returned to the madness of London and the island went back to sleep."

Tony Bramwell 

John, Cynthia, Julian, Paul McCartney, Jane Asher, and Alistair Taylor departing London to Athens on July 22, 1967

I don't know the process of buying an Island but I can safely guess that it isn't cheap... but John, and The Beatles, could afford it. Plus, they would have to pay for other amenities, like buildings, renovations, furniture, and care for the island (lawn maintenance, electricity, fresh water supply, food). 

Well, anyway, John and Cynthia decided make a trip to check out potential spots with Paul, George, Ringo Jane, Pattie, and Julian. Plus, Alistair Taylor, Mal Evans, probably his wife Lil, Neil Aspinall, Paula Boyd, and Magic Alex Madras, who was from Greece. I can really picture Alex working his 'magic' on John here - convincing him that Greece is the way to go. I believe this was really the first time John and Julian had a vacation together, and going out of the country. I honestly can't think of any other time John and Julian traveled together beforehand. On July 22, 1967, they set off to Greece and stayed with Alex's family. The following day, the 23rd, there was a storm so their boat trip was delayed. Instead, they went sightseeing and participated in a traditional Greek folk dance in Araxos. They also enjoyed the beach, swimming in the sea. I don't know exactly where they were mainly based- probably Athens, where they were also spotted sightseeing. I bet Alex was their tour guide. They were supposed to see a play Agamemnon hosted by Oxford University Dramatic Society; except Alex alerted news media that The Beatles were in town... why would he do that? Alex should've known that The Beatles didn't want attention while in town. They weren't there to be famous. Sure enough, The Beatles were greeted by the press and weren't able to see the play. This should've been a red flag on trusting Alex. July 24th, the weather was still delaying the boat trip, so, sightseeing they go. The next day, their yacht arrived but the ride was planned to set sail on the 26th; Paul and George decided to stay at "home" while John and Ringo went out to check out musical instruments. I don't know what the others did. On the day of (the 26th), Ringo left before getting on the boat to be with his heavily pregnant wife Maureen with Neil Aspinall accompanying him.  

John, Cynthia, Julian, Pattie Boyd, George Harrison, Ringo Starr, Paul McCartney, Jane Asher, and their entourage party enjoying food and tradition Greek dance in Araxos on July 23, 1967

Now, I heard two different versions on how The Beatles got on a yacht to island-shop: 

1) they rented a boat

2) the boat belonged to Alex's family

What is definitely true is that the yacht was named MV Arvi. The boat had 24 berths and a crew of eight, including the captain, a chef and two stewards. On July 26th, everyone got on board and set sail. The island of interest was Agia Triada. During the boat ride, John, Paul, and George took acid (I don't know about Ringo, he could've and he also left early to go home to his very pregnant wife).

"We rented a boat and sailed it up and down the coast from Athens, looking at islands. Somebody had said we should invest some money, so we thought: ‘Well, let’s buy an island. We’ll just go there and drop out.’ It was a great trip. John and I were on acid all the time, sitting on the front of the ship playing ukuleles. Greece was on the left; a big island on the right. The sun was shining and we sang ‘Hare Krishna’ for hours and hours. Eventually we landed on a little beach with a village, but as soon as we stepped off the boat it started pouring with rain. There were storms and lightning, and the only building on the island was a little fisherman’s cottage – so we all piled in: ”Scuse us, squire. You don’t mind if we come and shelter in your cottage, do you?’ The island was covered in big pebbles, but Alex said, ‘It doesn’t matter. We’ll have the military come and lift them all off and carry them away.’ But we got back on the boat and sailed away, and never thought about the island again." 

George Harrison

"We went on the boat and sat around and took acid. It was good fun being with everyone, with nippier moments. For me the pace was a bit wearing. I probably could have done with some straight windows occasionally, I’d have enjoyed it a bit more. But nothing came of that, because we went out there and thought, We’ve done it now. That was it for a couple of weeks. Great, wasn’t it? Now we don’t need it. Having been out there, I don’t think we needed to go back. Probably the best way to not buy a Greek island is to go out there for a bit. It’s a good job we didn’t do it, because anyone who tried those ideas realised eventually there would always be arguments, there would always be who has to do the washing-up and whose turn it is to clean out the latrines. I don’t think any of us were thinking of that."

Paul McCartney

Paul and Julian in Araxos, Greece on July 23, 1967

Julian and Paul building sand castle while in Greece 

One thing really noticeable during the trip to Greece: Paul and Julian. With John standing there, watching his band mate, co-songwriter, and best friend Paul McCartney playing with his son. Paul played with Julian, always took the time to fool around, giggling, shrieking, swimming, running around, playing Cowboys & Indians, and building sand castles. John definitely took notice, he often did acknowledged the tight bond between 'Uncle' Paul and Julian. I think it's a mix of complimentary and jealousy from John. 

"Paul had a much more tender way with people, and therefore had a greater understanding of handling children. That's how his association with me was tightened. When I was a kid, Dad wasn't necessarily the playing-around type, whereas Paul was, so there was cowboys and Indians and all that kind of stuff."

Julian, 1998

“Paul was definitely the more gentle sort of playing cowboys and indians all the time while Dad was off doing something else. So, he tended to be around a bit more.”

Julian 

“We were once on a Greek island on holiday, and we were on a boat. It was George and Pattie, John and Cynthia, me and Jane Asher, I think. And Julian was along. I played with Julian most of the trip. We’d run around the deck playing cowboys and Indians— ‘bang, bang, you’re dead’, or whatever— and Julian loved it. And I remember John coming up to me… In fact, it was one of the most poignant moments of our relationship. He took me aside and said, ‘How do you do that?’ And I couldn’t tell him. You either know how to do that stuff or you don’t.”

Paul McCartney, 1995

“We’d gone on this Greek holiday once to buy an island and Julian and I spent a lot time playing around on the boat. I used to play cowboys and Indians with him, and he’d love it: a grown-up who would go, ‘Now you chase me, and I’ll chase you, but after you’ve caught me, not before, okay?’ And you were totally in this mad magic game. I remember John coming up to me once and he took me aside and said, ‘How do you do it?’ I said, ‘What do you mean?' He said, ‘With Julian. How do you play with kids like that?’ I remember feeling a wave of sorrow coming over me, like uhh, I’d love to be able to tell you. Then I tried to give like the potted version, you know, ‘Play, pretend you’re a kid. Play with him.’ But John never got it. Never got the hang of it. John was always a man.”

Paul McCartney, 1999

There's footage from The Beatles Anthology of Paul hanging out with Julian and Jane in the sea, Julian sliding on a railing of the yacht with Jane watching over him, and with John smiling at Julian having their own moment. 

I don't know the deep details of the trip for John and Cynthia. In my mind, John and Cynthia were working on their marriage despite the problems... for major example: John was taking acid during the vacation and island-shopping. That must have pissed off Cynthia. She must have dreaded the idea of an Island getaway and John taking acid, like she would never escape from. Other than that, I never heard of any bad tension between them. Cynthia didn't write about the Greece trip in her books or HELLO! magazine installments or spoke about it in interviews, that I'm aware of. 

 

John, Cynthia, Julian, Paul McCartney, Jane Asher, Paula Boyd, and Alex Madras arriving at Heathrow Airport from Athens on July 31, 1967

On July 29th, George, Pattie, and Mal Evans left as George and Pattie were due to travel to Los Angeles on August 1st. On July 31st, the remaining Beatles party departed from Athens to London. The idea of buying an island was pretty much forgotten. Although, I think the idea of having a commune stuck around as Cynthia (and maybe Maureen, Pattie, and Jane) saw Tittenhurst Park while commune house shopping. Unfortunately, as we now know, the commune living never happened. There is something weird that I recently noticed: John and Cynthia were both wearing the same clothes when they left London and when they left Athens. 

Coming or Going

 

Arriving Home From Greece

 

When the Marriage Ends, Vol. 1

 Paul McCartney, Jane Asher, Cynthia and John Lennon at the Grapefruit record party on January 18, 1968. By the middle of the year, both couples would be over

I am now jumping to another era instead of going chronological order- I never even meant for this blog to go in order and decided to go random instead. With this subject, I decided to just get it done and over with. Not my favorite era to cover, although I realize it's inevitable. It happened and I do need to acknowledge it. This past November 8th marked the 50th anniversary of John and Cynthia's divorce. However, now, at this time of writing, I am marking it. As John once wrote the lyric, 'Life happens to you as you are busy making other plans.’ I also admit to avoid it and didn't want to consume my attention.

There were a lot of factors in the breakup of John and Cynthia- which we will examine on a later post but we are going to to focus on the main catalyst of all: Yoko Ono.

John and Yoko met in November of 1966; for the longest time John viewed Yoko as an annoying nuisance that became an interesting friendship. We will get more into that in another day but for now, this is about 1968. From February until April, John and Cynthia were in India studying Transcendental Meditation with the Maharishi Mahesh Yogi. During his time there, Yoko would send him letters; John became obsessed and looked forward to the next letter while his marriage to Cynthia became increasingly strained. He realized he fell in love with Yoko but I don't think at that very moment he didn't know what to do. Yoko was married with child, too. On April 12, 1968 John and Cynthia arrived back to London from India. During the long trek, John opened up to Cynthia about his extramarital affairs; although hurt by these revelations, Cynthia forgave him and hoped to move forward with their marriage. But John was torn between Cynthia and his growing feelings for Yoko. In the meantime, John must have decided to give his marriage another go but was still being pursued.

“Before Mrs Lennon went to Greece, I had seen Yoko Ono at the house twice. I had brought tea and coffee into the room and John and Yoko had always been chatting together. I had no reason to suspect any illicit associations. It appeared to me that she was rather more a friend of John; she always spoke to John and I never saw her talking to Mrs Lennon. On one occasion, I know that she stayed at the house overnight, but Mrs Lennon was there and I made breakfast for the three of them the next morning.”

Dorothy Jarlett, housekeeper

I never heard this of Yoko spending the night at Weybridge with Cynthia there but this was from the Lennon's divorce papers so the memory was still fresh. Did Cynthia forget that happened? However as Dot stated, Cynthia and Yoko never interacted. On a later page, Dot revealed that she found John and Yoko in bed together while Cynthia was away, as we will get into the momentarily (unfortunately I can't add that in as that part never made it on any articles to copy & paste).

 On May 14, 1968, John Lennon and Paul McCartney announce The Beatles new business, Apple Corps, in New York City. Cynthia was in Greece at the time while John decided to end their marriage.

In May, John and Paul were scheduled to go to New York City to promote the Beatles new business venture, Apple Corps. Cynthia wanted to travel along but John said no. On the 11th, John and Paul went to New York and stayed at Nat Weiss's apartment (where John had a little fun with the housekeeper) until the 16th. Before John left for New York, he encouraged Cynthia to take a Mediterranean vacation with Jenny Boyd and Alex Madras of Greece and Italy. Cynthia obliged as she felt it may be good for them both to feel refreshed and re-energized. Julian was left in care with grandmother Lillian at her own home as John would be going away too.

“Back home the distance between us opened up again. Soon after returning from India John was going away again and Pattie's sister Jenny and some other friends of ours were planning a holiday in Greece. They asked me along. All of a sudden John was concerned for my health. ‘It'll do you the world of good,’ he said enthusiastically. ‘You go.’ He was so encouraging that I decided to do just that.”

Cynthia, 1994

While in New York City, John made a decision: to end his marriage to Cynthia. But, how? John was a coward and rarely would make these kinds of confrontations. When he came back from New York, John wanted to take his friendship with Yoko further. On May 18th, John and his best friend Pete Shotton (who was staying over) talked about John inviting Yoko over. When Yoko arrived, it was shy and awkward. Eventually Pete went to bed and John took Yoko up to his home recording studio to occupy themselves.

“When we got back from India, we were talking to each other on the phone. I called her over, it was the middle of the night and Cyn was away, and I thought, 'Well, now's the time if I'm going to get to know her anymore.' She came to the house and I didn't know what to do; so we went upstairs to my studio and I played her all the tapes that I'd made, all this far-out stuff, some comedy stuff, and some electronic music. There were very few people I could play those tapes to. She was suitably impressed, and then she said, 'Well, let's make one ourselves,' so we made Two Virgins. It was midnight when we finished, and then we made love at dawn. It was very beautiful.”

John, 1970

That morning, May 19th, John told Pete that he and Yoko were it. He wanted Pete to get Yoko new clothes and whatever items she may need. Oddly enough, Cynthia did not come up in the conversation. In the recent reveal of the divorce papers, Dot said that she caught John and Yoko in bed, serving them breakfast.

“I also understood immediately that he really wouldn't hesitate to sacrifice everything for Yoko- least of all Cynthia, whose name was never even mentioned that memorable morning- unbelievable as that may seem in light of the fact that John and Yoko had barely known one another twelve hours earlier.”

Pete Shotton, 1983

“Pete Shotton had resigned from the boutique before he sank with it and became John's personal assistant, in reality his companion. He went to stay with John after Cynthia went to Greece… The next day, John sent Pete up to town with Yoko to go shopping to get her some new outfits, whatever she wanted, and Yoko moved into Kenwood. By the time Cynthia arrived home that fateful morning from the airport, having made up her mind to forgive John for the sake of their son, Yoko had been installed for four days.”

Tony Bramwell

“It wasn't like that. It was like I was ready to be independent from my marriage and I thought, 'Well, OK then, I would probably live in a loft by myself or something like that.’ John didn't like that idea. And so we came together that first time and we finally got together that May- we started living together.”

Yoko Ono

"I'd never known love like this before, and it hit me so hard that I had to halt my marriage to Cyn. And don't think that it was a reckless decision, but I felt very deeply about it and all the implications that would be involved. My marriage to Cyn was not unhappy. But it was just a normal marital state where nothing happened and which we continued to sustain. You sustain it until you meet somebody who suddenly sets you alight."

John Lennon, 1968

I honestly don't really believe John; I don't think he thought about how Cynthia felt nor cared and nevermind about Julian…

On May 22nd, Cynthia returned unexpectedly hoping to see her husband and drag him out for dinner to carry on her fantastic mood. But… not so what she was expecting.

“Well, I had a good time but for some reason we decided to come home earlier than planned. We couldn't get a direct flight to London, and had to stop off in Rome. I tried to phone John to tell him that I was on my way. The phone rang and rang but there was no reply. This wasn't particularly unusual. John led a hectic life. So disappointed but not suspicious I continued on my way. Eventually the holiday party pulled into the drive at Weybridge to find the outside lights blazing. ‘John must be home,’ I said, pleased. So I opened the front door and we all went in, calling from room to room: ‘Hello! Hello? Hello!’ There was no reply. Then I got into the breakfast room, walked in and stopped short. John and Yoko wearing nothing but matching purple dressing gowns turned to look at me. I stared at them and they stared back. There was this terrible silence. Behind me our friends had caught up and their cheerful chatter died away as they took in the scene. The silence went on and on. I felt I had to say something. ‘I tried to phone,’ I found myself prattling foolishly. ‘I wanted to say wouldn't it be lovely to have breakfast in Greece, lunch in Rome and dinner in London with you…’ tears were making my eyes blurry. ‘I thought it would have been lovely…’ I trailed off, unable to get any further. Still there was no response. Neither of them said anything at all. I couldn't bear it. Turning quickly, I walked out.”

Cynthia Lennon, 1994

“It just seemed right at the time . . . I’ve spoken to Julia, John’s sister, and she said, ‘Cyn, why didn’t you bop her one, why didn’t you smash her face in?’ and I said, ‘Julia, if you’d been there . . . you had no idea what I was feeling.’ I was riveted to the spot. It was in my own home with my own husband. I’d known him for 10 years — what am I supposed to do, go over and kiss him and say, ‘Oh, darling, how are you? Hello, Yoko, had a nice weekend?’ What am I supposed to do?”

Cynthia Lennon, 2005

“As she walked in, Cynthia had some premonition of something being not quite right. The house was too quiet and appeared to be empty. She ran in ahead of Magic Alex and Jenny Boyd and found John and Yoko in the kitchen. Yoko was sitting with her back to Cynthia, in Cynthia's kimono, a pointed insult, because she must have known that Cynthia was due back. ‘Oh, hi,’ John said casually. Cynthia was so confused, she started gabbling brightly about breakfast in Greece and lunch in Rome, and how they would all go out and have dinner in London. John destroyed her with a very disinterested, ‘No thanks.’ It was then that Yoko turned and looked at her. It was a look that blasted Cynthia straight out of the water. Horrified, she turned and ran around the house in tears, stuffing a few possessions into bags before getting into the car and driving off…”

Tony Bramwell

"They looked so natural together. I felt a stranger in my own home."

Cynthia Lennon, 1980

Interestingly, Yoko has a different account on what happened on that day as if Cynthia knew the entire time and was cool with it.

“That's a dramatic story. I'm not saying it came from Cynthia. I don't know who, maybe some writer embellished it or something like that. First of all, the driver and Lil- they were reporting to Cynthia all the time. She knew. It was an open thing in a way. She said, 'I don't want to come back now.’ The first time that she came, she was with Pattie Boyd's sister and Alex and there was another person. So, Cynthia and Alex and Pattie Boyd's sister and whoever the guy was said they were going to visit, and they came in from the garden side. I immediately tried to sit a little further away from John, and John said, 'No, don't worry about that, it's OK.’ He just grabbed my hand and we were sitting together, kind of thing. He wanted it that way. I don't know why. He wasn't like, 'My wife is coming, I have to hide the situation.’ Totally not like that. They stayed a while to say hi and left from the front door- not in a huff. There was an underlying tension, but we were all civil, like the flower children we were. I was wearing a kind of Indian shirt, one of those loose, cotton pullovers, and the Indian big pants. And their visit happened in May, immediately after John and I started living together.”

Yoko Ono

“Absolute rubbish, I had no idea whatsoever. I can’t answer any more than that, because I had no idea that there was any kind of relationship going on. I thought that there might have been some kind of artistic connection, but not in any way an emotional relationship or an affair. My staff didn’t tell me anything. I had a housekeeper and all she did was tell me that Yoko would come to the house and leave things behind for John. That didn’t mean anything to me because there were lots of fans who came to the house.”

Cynthia Lennon, 2005

So, who do you believe? I believe Cynthia. Her story on how she found John and Yoko together and her devastation never changed or altered in any way. And who was this other guy Yoko referred to but couldn't remember the name? Well, anyway, Cynthia went to stay with Jenny and Alex, who were platonic roommates, to clear her head and grasp on what was going on. Julian was still under the care of Lillian… Come to think about it, did John at all have any contact with Julian when he returned from New York? I am doubting it. While at Jenny and Alex’s apartment, he and a depressed Cynthia got drunk. For a long time, it was presumed that Cynthia and Alex had sex; I know it was certainly mentioned in Peter Brown's tabloid-like book The Love You Make. But Cynthia denied it: he did put the moves on her but she refused so Alex hid in his room for the reminder of her three days stay.

“I think my mind was blocked most of the next few days because I have very little memory of them. I know that I went to stay with Jenny and she did her best to comfort me but I was in complete shock. I was desperate. I didn't know where I was going or what I should do. I didn't know how to handle the situation. I wanted it to be a mistake. I wanted to have completely misunderstood the scene, I wanted there to be an innocent explanation. But of course I knew this was ridiculous. I had to face the fact that they were having an affair. I could only be grateful that Julian was staying with Mum and hadn't witnessed the whole thing. Worst of all there was no explanation. How had this happened? Why had it happened? After three miserable days with Jenny, not knowing what else to do, I went home to see what would happen. To my amazement nothing happened. John was still there, Yoko had gone and John behaved as if the whole thing was a figment of my imagination. Perhaps I was wrong but I allowed this pretence to continue. I didn't want to lose my husband and I thought if I didn't confront the situation perhaps the affair would blow itself out and John and I could rebuild our marriage.”

Cynthia Lennon, 1994

Cynthia returned home by May 26th; Dot cleaned up the house, Julian was back home, Yoko wasn't there, and John was happy to see Cynthia, baffled by why she left but acted like nothing happened. That night of her arrival home, John and Cynthia made love.

“Oddly enough the weeks passed and on the surface it probably looked as if we were happy. John was unusually demonstrative. He kept coming up to me and putting his arms around me and saying: ‘I love you’. He'd never been a demonstrative man but suddenly he was always hugging me and whispering things that were very special. I should have been pleased but inside I felt strange. The words and actions were lovely. They gave me a little hope. But I couldn't shake off the feeling that it was all a bit unreal. John was covering up something... Mum knew nothing of the Yoko affair and our recent troubles and she'd been pressing me for some time to take Julian on a family holiday to Italy. She and my Auntie Daisy and Uncle Bill had discovered this wonderful hotel, she said, which was perfect for kiddies. Julian would love it. ‘In that case,’ I said to John, ‘Do you mind if I take Julian and Mum to Italy?’ ‘Go ahead,’ he shrugged. The day we left John didn't even come down to say goodbye. We said our farewells in the bedroom and John stayed in bed, not bothering to get up to wave us off. I had a dreadful hollow feeling inside as I led Julian to the car. Nothing had been said but we couldn't pretend any longer. Our marriage was over.”

Cynthia Lennon, 1994

 John made his relationship with Yoko public starting with them planting acorns for peace at St Michael's Cathedral in Coventry on June 15, 1968 while Cynthia was in Italy.

I don't know the exact date Cynthia and Julian went to Italy. During this time, The Beatles were starting to record The Beatles (aka the White) album and John would be busy with business. However, while Cynthia was in Italy, John made his relationship with Yoko public starting with them planting acorns for peace at St Michael's Cathedral in Coventry on June 15, 1968 and three days later, John and Yoko attended In His Own Write play at the Old Vic Theatre. Reporters and photographers were baffled by John's date and asked where Cynthia was? John replied he didn't know. The pictures of John and Yoko were splashed on the international newspapers, including in Italy where Cynthia saw it after Roberto Bassanini gave it to her. That must have crushed her heart. It was one of the ways that John sent the message that they were over. Another way was sending Magic Alex to Italy to pass the message of divorce. The following day, Cynthia came down with the flu and was bedridden. Meanwhile, her mother decided to put this in her own hands to see if there's anything to save by going back to London.

“It probably should have come as no surprise to us- yet nonetheless did- that a mob of reporters and photographers was lying in wait for John and Yoko outside the theater, armed with phrases like ‘What happened to Cynthia?’ and ‘Where's your wife, John?’ Cynthia, meanwhile, had also found John and Yoko breakfasting in the kitchen when she arrived home from her Greek holiday; as it happened, Yoko was even dressed for the occasion in one of Cyn's nightgowns. Cyn spent the next few days recuperating from the shock in Magic Alex's apartment before John packed her off with Julian and her mother on yet another Mediterranean vacation- this time to Pesaro, Italy. There, unbeknownst to John, Cyn formed a romantic attachment of her own, with an Italian named Roberto Bassanini. Never very forthright about facing up to unpleasant confrontations, John- for all his rhapsodizing about the new life he envisioned with Yoko- had heretofore given little if any thought to the ultimate disposal of his legally wedded wife. Only after Cyn had left for Italy did he reach his irrevocable decision to seek a divorce. Even then, however, he couldn't bear the prospect of delivering the bad news to her himself. Instead- as had been the case five years earlier, when he and the others forced Brian Epstein to amputate Pete Best from the Beatles- John proposed to delegate the assignment to someone else: namely, me. ‘You fuck off!’ I told him. ‘I'm not going all the way to Italy to do your dirty work when you damn well know you should do it yourself.' I said this in a jocular tone, but John nonetheless got the message. Instead, he sent Magic Alex. According to Alex, his subsequent search for Cyn was frustrated by the Pesaran's strange reluctance to divulge her whereabouts, which he attributed to an edict from Roberto's local friends. Be that as it may, Alex eventually did track down the elusive Mrs. Lennon, and summoned her back to England.”

Pete Shotton, 1983

John Lennon and Yoko Ono attended In His Own Write play at the Old Vic Theatre on June 18, 1968 where reporters and photographers asked where his wife Cynthia was.

"My mother, aunt and uncle spent a holiday in Pesaro, Italy, at a hotel run by a family called Bassanini. When they came back they said to me: 'Why don't you go? It would be good for you.' So my mother, Julian and I went. John was working. Of course everyone knew that I was John Lennon's wife and it made me some kind of celebrity. The only one of the family that spoke English was the Bassaninis' son, Roberto, so he was given the job of showing me around. Before I knew where I was there was a detective following us. John was having me tailed while he was back in Weybridge sleeping in our bed with Yoko. I was taken ill out there and had to go to bed. I sent a telegram to the house, asking if everything was all right, and my housekeeper, who was taking John and Yoko breakfast in bed, telegraphed back to say everything was fine. To be fair to her she didn't have much choice. Of course, rumours started to reach me. When I finally left for England my mother went on ahead and arrived at the Surrey house first. But they knew she was coming, and when she arrived she found a bunch of flowers from John and a message saying 'Beat you to it, Lil'."

Cynthia Lennon, 1976

“It was almost collusion between Magic Alex and John and Yoko. They thought that I was going to be so frightened by the whole thing, but I knew that it hadn’t happened and I wasn’t guilty. I was in Italy with my mother, my aunt, uncle and Julian, so there was no way that would have happened. I have a feeling that there was a private detective around. The mere fact that Magic Alex arrived in Italy in the middle of the night without any prior knowledge of where I was staying made me extremely suspicious. He was bringing a message that John was going to divorce me and take Julian away and send me back to Liverpool. The whole thing was just so surreal and bizarre. And then of course the following day in the newspapers there’s the photo of John and Yoko. At that point everything fitted together in my mind… I was being coerced into making it easy for John and Yoko to accuse me of doing something that would make them look not so bad. When your back is to the wall, the best form of defence is attack. He had come out to the world that he had left his wife and family and he was now with ‘Japanese Bottoms artist Yoko Ono’. Love is blind sometimes. You do these things and don’t realize the consequences. I honestly don’t think he felt that he would get the backlash that he did. They were bizarre times and it was hard to understand what was happening. I knew something terrible was going on but I couldn’t put my finger on it, but it was only when all these other things came about that I became aware that I was being set-up.”

Cynthia Lennon, 2005

“Towards the end of the marriage, John began to suspect that Cynthia was being unfaithful. And like many adulterers he absolutely frantic with rage at the thought of another man making love to his own wife. But because he was out all the time, and out of his mind much of the rest of the time, it was very hard for him to check up on what Cynthia was up to. That is why he used his friend Magic Alex Madras to follow her. I don't think Cynthia was unfaithful to John before he humiliatingly ended the marriage by moving Yoko into their home, but I know that John thought she was. John quizzed me on a trip to Italy taken by Cynthia earlier in 1968. I hadn't arranged it, which was unusual but not unprecedented. Occasionally, one or other of the Beatles or their wives would take off on a trip they had organised themselves. But John thought Cynthia was being deliberately secretive about this Italian trip. He wouldn't tell me why he wanted to know, but he wanted to find out every detail of every conversation I'd had with Cynthia over the recent past. And such details were not the normal subject of John's interest. He was consumed with jealousy. He might not have loved Cynthia as passionately or as exclusively as he once had, but he sure as hell was not prepared to put up with her loving someone else. He had Alex spying on her and I think it was this obsessive jealousy that sparked him into bringing Yoko in and kicking Cynthia out. John was a bit of a lost soul until he met Yoko. If you looked at her and then at sexy Cynthia, you couldn't see why any man would exchange a beautiful, warm-hearted blonde who was the mother of his son for an oddball Japanese woman with more hang-ups than a psychiatric clinic.”

Alistair Taylor

“A few days later, pale and exhausted but over the worst of my tonsilitis, I brought Julian back to join her in the ground floor apartment. Mum still hadn't been able to establish what was happening at our old home and I didn't know where else to go. Within half an hour of taking my coat off, there came another knock at the door. It wasn't flowers this time. It was a legal document for me. Bleakly I scanned the close typed lines in growing disbelief. I dropped the papers in astonishment and then snatched them up to read them again. I couldn't believe it. John was divorcing me on the grounds of my adultery.”

Cynthia Lennon, 1994